just can think a bad side from someone!!!

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why people can only remember the bad side? why they can only judge and take his own conclusions? as an example, I'm a bad partner, when I can't play with my best friend, but I'm having fun with another friend. i'm a bad partner. when I'm sad, I came to my best friend, but when i'm happy, I went to another friend. why it's so easy to make a conclusion if I was a bad friend? try to ask your friend, i'm sure your friend have a reason
only badness that you always remembered. i believed, we have bad side in ourself. and ever hurt someone even if unconsciously. so, don'tt judge people, look into yourself. ask yourself,
"if I ever hurt her?"
"if I ever forget my friends?"
"if I ever leave my friends, and have fun with others?"
"if I ever have fun with my best friends?"
"if i ever tell everything about my sadness to my best friend?
"if I had too selfish to her?"
"if I ever support her?"
try to remember all of the kindness that her to do for you. remember a bad side from friend, its not benefit.Remember all the days that you lived together. laughing, crying, disappointed.

find a friend when sadly, find a friend who can make you comfortable and express yourself. find a friend who can give you spirit.find a friend who understands the situation, find a friend who can laugh when you are sad.

don't find a friend just for fun...